Lynn Ban, a jewelry designer who was a cast member on the Netflix reality series "Bling Empire: New York," has died.

We had negotiated everything in advance: our safe word, how I wanted to feel from the encounter. I had even colored a diagram of a body in red and green to indicate where he was allowed to touch me.

These bags, from luxury labels like Ferragamo and The Row, emulate the Hermés bag's timeless sophistication without the fuss of a waitlist or the same price tag.